Today morning right after I sent a friend to the airport, I felt a great sense of emptiness.
To beat the emptiness feeling, I thought I needed sometime to wander around a bit to settle my feelings. But where to go to? When the Airport Express was approaching Kowloon station, I decided to take off and visit the new Elements mall.
It was ten something in the morning so not many stores were opened. I walked past a Swatch shop and thought, I saw a beautiful ring which was newly displayed. I bought it. With the weigh on my hand, I felt a little better.
I continued my walking around in the mall. I walked past some stores, most were still closed. Then I arrived at an HMV shore. They are giving out limited edition of HMV caps and shopping bags to celebrate the opening of the new store. Normally, I don’t fancy these kinds of gifts. But I thought new music might help to calm me down. And to say the truth, the silvery bag looks pretty cool. So I went in, spent almost an hour in the store, and came out happily with six new CDs, a free cap and a silvery shopping bag. I couldn’t wait to go home to listen to my new purchases.
Don’t we all shop to soothe our emotions? When we are upset, we shop to overcome the feelings. When we are happy, we tend to be in a good mood for shopping. When we are confused, we shop. When we need to celebrate, we shop.
Singaporean singer Stephanie Sun said she does the same. When she is in a low mood, she would go shopping with her closes friend. The new purchases, especially new handbags, always put a smile back on her face. And also singersongwriters Hins Cheung and Tanya Chua, TV actress Ada Choi Siu-fan, lyricist Wyman Wong, movie actress Ng Kwan-yu, Radio DJ Vincci Cheuk Wan-chi and singer Eason Chan’s wife Hilary Tsui. In the past half year, they all shared on magazines, newspapers or TV about their shopping habit, how shopping helps them go through different kinds of moods.
You can argue that even if these celebrities acted this way, we don’t have to follow suit. We are independent being that we shouldn’t be influenced by the media and the soft advertisements. Some critics of the consumerism said we don’t need more than the necessary things. And that luxuries, like my ring, or the expansive handbags that these celebrities bought, are plainly wasteful. Some They said consumerism is an artificial creation sustained by artificial social pressures, from the leaders of the big companies. This forms a part of the general process of social control and cultural hegemony in the society.
As you said, we are independent beings. We can decide what is necessary for us, influenced by the media or not. And if we all only have the basic stuff, how can we differentiated with others.
And for the meantime, I don’t have the time to argue with you. I got to rush home to enjoy my new music.




